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Lividup64

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My ban
« on: 15 November 2015, 03:52:51 PM »
I was banned on the 15th of November, 2015 for supposed douchery. Upon reading Noket's report I saw what I did could've been considered being a douche. I was joking around with Bless a bit because she was Catholic, which I see was douchey but she didn't say anything against it so I assumed that she knew it was a joke. If she'd said something I would've stopped. I also called her lazy because I assumed she was still in bed but again, we joke around like that and I didn't know she took any offense to that comment. I also called SmartLittleCookie a derogatory term by making fun of his Minecraft name saying 'DumbLittleCookie,' which again, I see was kind of rude but he didn't say anything about that comment except for "dumblittlecookie isn't a good name, I only picked SmartLittleCookie because it sounded good." I would like to say that if any of those players took any offense I am sorry.

I've been temp-banned for three days and I've been making similar comments for a little while so I'm sorry for that. I would've appreciated a staff warning so I would've known to stop this behaviour but this ban has been a clear and sufficient one. If I'm unbanned any earlier I will take this ban into consideration and if not I will remember this ban and the reason why I was banned and strife to not upset people like this again. Again, I am sorry for any hard feelings to SmartLittleCookie and Blessalle, I was just joking but if you felt offended I am willing to make amends. Thank you for reading my appeal.

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Re: My ban
« Reply #1 on: 15 November 2015, 04:08:29 PM »
#UnBanLivid2015HeDidNothingWrong

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they dont let fags become admin

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Re: My ban
« Reply #2 on: 15 November 2015, 04:21:58 PM »
Livid the Eater: you just went to noket
*Blessalle*: YEAH BECAUSE WE BOTH KNOW THOSE WORDS WOULDNT COME FROM ME OKAY
Livid the Eater: Does that make any sense?
*Blessalle*: YOU KNOW I WOULD DO SOMETHING STUPID
Livid the Eater: You can't say stop?
*Blessalle*: I'm not nice
*Blessalle*: I'm a bitch
*Blessalle*: Nobody likes me
*Blessalle*: Okay
Livid the Eater: So
Livid the Eater: you can't say stop if you feel harassed?
*Blessalle*: No



I just talked to Bless and this conversation shows how I had no idea if Bless was offended or felt harassed or not. She never told me to stop and she never made it clear that she didn't like joking about.

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Re: My ban
« Reply #3 on: 15 November 2015, 04:36:43 PM »
#UnBanLivid2015HeDidNothingWrong

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Re: My ban
« Reply #4 on: 15 November 2015, 04:37:33 PM »
Just fucking unban him.. Freedom of speech right?? It was my fault, I didn't say stop but at the same time I wouldn't have just said stop. We all know that . Just please I'm sick of seeing "why did you get livid banned bitch" unban him please. :/

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Re: My ban
« Reply #5 on: 15 November 2015, 04:40:08 PM »
I will be reducing the tempban to 1 day, considering an example that @PengBunny showed me.

Please take the time to consider your behaviour towards other players.

I have recognized my own faults in this:
  • I should not, and will not reply to complaints on steam anymore.
  • I did not consult, to my fault, other staff regarding the tempban. I will poll other staff before taking action about douchey behavior, to allow for proper oversight.

I feel this should be the standard. Likely, this will be discussed among staff.

Lividup64

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Re: My ban
« Reply #6 on: 15 November 2015, 04:40:24 PM »
Just fucking unban him.. Freedom of speech right?? It was my fault, I didn't say stop but at the same time I wouldn't have just said stop. We all know that . Just please I'm sick of seeing "why did you get livid banned bitch" unban him please. :/

Nah, I was at fault too, I was harassing you. Sorry.

Lividup64

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Re: My ban
« Reply #7 on: 15 November 2015, 04:43:27 PM »
I will be reducing the tempban to 1 day, considering an example that @PengBunny showed me.

Please take the time to consider your behaviour towards other players.

I have recognized my own faults in this:
  • I should not, and will not reply to complaints on steam anymore.
  • I did not consult, to my fault, other staff regarding the tempban. I will poll other staff before taking action about douchey behavior, to allow for proper oversight.

I feel this should be the standard. Likely, this will be discussed among staff.

So I'm getting the feeling that Chaos will probably say something about me constantly calling him a gingy, which I can defend if needed..

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Re: My ban
« Reply #8 on: 15 November 2015, 04:49:32 PM »
Let me first off say I think Livid is seriously a great guy. Yes, he is rude and douchey at times, but mostly he is very cool. But i was affected by him also.
Over the past few months, he has been rude to my desceased brother, and this has really affected me in ways that are hard to think about.
One example is last night we were having a small fight, and, yes, i called him some rude things and the rudeness was equal, but he called my brother a bitch, and about a month ago he said he was in hell. I have repeatedly told him to stop among other things, but he keeps doing it.
YES, it is sometimes in retaliation, like the time where he called him a bitch, i had said some rude things too. But other times he has said rude things out of the blue when i wasn't directing anything at him.
This is not a report, this is not anything like that, this is just an example of what he does and his personality. I do not think (Though i may be wrong) that he meant it, but it still is not the coolest thing to do.
When I got banned I took the time that i had extra because i couldn't play vc and used it to think about what I had done and how i would be when (And if) i got unbanned.
Since then, I haven't had any more reports or punishments on vc, and my record is much better.
I may not be staff, but I think that you should take this time to think about how you will be when you are back on vc, and no i'm not trying to sound like a mom, but i really think if you take this time and reflect on what you did and how you can be nicer, you will have a less chance of being banned. Yes, you could be unbanned earlier, but not in a nanosecond so just think about it and I think you can be a much better person. Again, I'm not staff so i have NO FUCKING SAY-SO but this is what i think should happen and something to reflect on.
Again, you are my friend and I will always forgive you because you always forgive me <3.

You get mad at me for posting on appeals but shen's shit always goes unnoticed...odd...


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Re: My ban
« Reply #9 on: 15 November 2015, 04:55:55 PM »
Let me first off say I think Livid is seriously a great guy. Yes, he is rude and douchey at times, but mostly he is very cool. But i was affected by him also.
Over the past few months, he has been rude to my desceased brother, and this has really affected me in ways that are hard to think about.
One example is last night we were having a small fight, and, yes, i called him some rude things and the rudeness was equal, but he called my brother a bitch, and about a month ago he said he was in hell. I have repeatedly told him to stop among other things, but he keeps doing it.
YES, it is sometimes in retaliation, like the time where he called him a bitch, i had said some rude things too. But other times he has said rude things out of the blue when i wasn't directing anything at him.
This is not a report, this is not anything like that, this is just an example of what he does and his personality. I do not think (Though i may be wrong) that he meant it, but it still is not the coolest thing to do.
When I got banned I took the time that i had extra because i couldn't play vc and used it to think about what I had done and how i would be when (And if) i got unbanned.
Since then, I haven't had any more reports or punishments on vc, and my record is much better.
I may not be staff, but I think that you should take this time to think about how you will be when you are back on vc, and no i'm not trying to sound like a mom, but i really think if you take this time and reflect on what you did and how you can be nicer, you will have a less chance of being banned. Yes, you could be unbanned earlier, but not in a nanosecond so just think about it and I think you can be a much better person. Again, I'm not staff so i have NO FUCKING SAY-SO but this is what i think should happen and something to reflect on.
Again, you are my friend and I will always forgive you because you always forgive me <3.

You get mad at me for posting on appeals but shen's shit always goes unnoticed...odd...

Few things. I didn't post this appeal in a nano-second, if I've been rude to you 'out of the blue' it's been as a joke, and you know that as you call me a nigger and a bitch, not maliciously. However, regarding your deceased brother, I am really, really sorry about that but I have never said something like that unless you really REALLY provoked me. I'm not saying I was right in doing that, but I've told you not to call me certain things but you continue to and I sit there and say nothing but I've got a breaking point too, yes? I think you can agree that you have been harassing me, calling me things I've asked you not to call me. But whatever. Anyways, I am very sorry for my out of line comments, and I think I could learn to take some time to reflect before saying anything that horrible in retaliation.

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Re: My ban
« Reply #10 on: 15 November 2015, 04:57:50 PM »
Let me first off say I think Livid is seriously a great guy. Yes, he is rude and douchey at times, but mostly he is very cool. But i was affected by him also.
Over the past few months, he has been rude to my desceased brother, and this has really affected me in ways that are hard to think about.
One example is last night we were having a small fight, and, yes, i called him some rude things and the rudeness was equal, but he called my brother a bitch, and about a month ago he said he was in hell. I have repeatedly told him to stop among other things, but he keeps doing it.
YES, it is sometimes in retaliation, like the time where he called him a bitch, i had said some rude things too. But other times he has said rude things out of the blue when i wasn't directing anything at him.
This is not a report, this is not anything like that, this is just an example of what he does and his personality. I do not think (Though i may be wrong) that he meant it, but it still is not the coolest thing to do.
When I got banned I took the time that i had extra because i couldn't play vc and used it to think about what I had done and how i would be when (And if) i got unbanned.
Since then, I haven't had any more reports or punishments on vc, and my record is much better.
I may not be staff, but I think that you should take this time to think about how you will be when you are back on vc, and no i'm not trying to sound like a mom, but i really think if you take this time and reflect on what you did and how you can be nicer, you will have a less chance of being banned. Yes, you could be unbanned earlier, but not in a nanosecond so just think about it and I think you can be a much better person. Again, I'm not staff so i have NO FUCKING SAY-SO but this is what i think should happen and something to reflect on.
Again, you are my friend and I will always forgive you because you always forgive me <3.

You get mad at me for posting on appeals but shen's shit always goes unnoticed...odd...

Few things. I didn't post this appeal in a nano-second, if I've been rude to you 'out of the blue' it's been as a joke, and you know that as you call me a nigger and a bitch, not maliciously. However, regarding your deceased brother, I am really, really sorry about that but I have never said something like that unless you really REALLY provoked me. I'm not saying I was right in doing that, but I've told you not to call me certain things but you continue to and I sit there and say nothing but I've got a breaking point too, yes? I think you can agree that you have been harassing me, calling me things I've asked you not to call me. But whatever. Anyways, I am very sorry for my out of line comments, and I think I could learn to take some time to reflect before saying anything that horrible in retaliation.

Not *sometimes* in retaliation, always in retaliation. Doesn't mean I'm right though, so sorry again.

bob131573

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Re: My ban
« Reply #11 on: 15 November 2015, 05:02:58 PM »
Let me first off say I think Livid is seriously a great guy. Yes, he is rude and douchey at times, but mostly he is very cool. But i was affected by him also.
Over the past few months, he has been rude to my desceased brother, and this has really affected me in ways that are hard to think about.
One example is last night we were having a small fight, and, yes, i called him some rude things and the rudeness was equal, but he called my brother a bitch, and about a month ago he said he was in hell. I have repeatedly told him to stop among other things, but he keeps doing it.
YES, it is sometimes in retaliation, like the time where he called him a bitch, i had said some rude things too. But other times he has said rude things out of the blue when i wasn't directing anything at him.
This is not a report, this is not anything like that, this is just an example of what he does and his personality. I do not think (Though i may be wrong) that he meant it, but it still is not the coolest thing to do.
When I got banned I took the time that i had extra because i couldn't play vc and used it to think about what I had done and how i would be when (And if) i got unbanned.
Since then, I haven't had any more reports or punishments on vc, and my record is much better.
I may not be staff, but I think that you should take this time to think about how you will be when you are back on vc, and no i'm not trying to sound like a mom, but i really think if you take this time and reflect on what you did and how you can be nicer, you will have a less chance of being banned. Yes, you could be unbanned earlier, but not in a nanosecond so just think about it and I think you can be a much better person. Again, I'm not staff so i have NO FUCKING SAY-SO but this is what i think should happen and something to reflect on.
Again, you are my friend and I will always forgive you because you always forgive me <3.

You get mad at me for posting on appeals but shen's shit always goes unnoticed...odd...

Few things. I didn't post this appeal in a nano-second, if I've been rude to you 'out of the blue' it's been as a joke, and you know that as you call me a nigger and a bitch, not maliciously. However, regarding your deceased brother, I am really, really sorry about that but I have never said something like that unless you really REALLY provoked me. I'm not saying I was right in doing that, but I've told you not to call me certain things but you continue to and I sit there and say nothing but I've got a breaking point too, yes? I think you can agree that you have been harassing me, calling me things I've asked you not to call me. But whatever. Anyways, I am very sorry for my out of line comments, and I think I could learn to take some time to reflect before saying anything that horrible in retaliation.
I did not say you "posted your appeal in a nano-second" i said during the time you were banned you could mabye reflect, I meant that you wouldn't be unbanned in a nano-second so you could have time to reflect, i never implied you posted the appeal in nano second. Yes, I did say sometimes you said them in retaliation, but other times you haven't and most people don't joke around about someone's desceased family, it's extremely sensitive, and anyone who has experienced it can say so. I apologise for anything in that comment that offended you and all the times i have insulted and hurt you, and thank you for apologising. :D

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Re: My ban
« Reply #12 on: 15 November 2015, 05:42:37 PM »
I am pardoning Livid of all wrongdoing. This offence will be nullified on the punishment registry and a note made to reflect that this must not be considered in any future punishments.

Verdict: Appeal won, full pardon.

Reason: Freedom of speech, no warning given, staff failed to even consult accused party. This ban was absolutely unacceptable and I'm going to talk to the staff as to why this unjust shit can't happen on VC. My apologies livid.

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Re: My ban
« Reply #13 on: 16 November 2015, 12:36:13 PM »
I will be reducing the tempban to 1 day, considering an example that @PengBunny showed me.

Please take the time to consider your behaviour towards other players.

I have recognized my own faults in this:
  • I should not, and will not reply to complaints on steam anymore.
  • I did not consult, to my fault, other staff regarding the tempban. I will poll other staff before taking action about douchey behavior, to allow for proper oversight.

I feel this should be the standard. Likely, this will be discussed among staff.

So I'm getting the feeling that Chaos will probably say something about me constantly calling him a gingy, which I can defend if needed..

Well I wasn't going to say anything seeing as things have been better now I've started ignoring you

Lividup64

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Re: My ban
« Reply #14 on: 16 November 2015, 02:11:34 PM »
I will be reducing the tempban to 1 day, considering an example that @PengBunny showed me.

Please take the time to consider your behaviour towards other players.

I have recognized my own faults in this:
  • I should not, and will not reply to complaints on steam anymore.
  • I did not consult, to my fault, other staff regarding the tempban. I will poll other staff before taking action about douchey behavior, to allow for proper oversight.

I feel this should be the standard. Likely, this will be discussed among staff.

So I'm getting the feeling that Chaos will probably say something about me constantly calling him a gingy, which I can defend if needed..

Well I wasn't going to say anything seeing as things have been better now I've started ignoring you

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