*rubs temples* Alright, first thing's first.
Sax, unless you have something intelligible to add to a grief report, please do not post on it. Also, Mossy did not ask *you* to get the stuff back, so stop acting like you have any say here.
Mossy, unless there was a no-kill agreement in place, nothing can be done. When you accept a TP request, you're agreeing to all risks unless both you and the other party promise no harm will come of you.
I would suggest just talking to Jared about it.